Earlier on this year, i went thru some of the roughest time in my life. thats y i stopped bloggin.

Friends are something for life. Friends are people you cherished. But friends no matter ho0w close, cant be always there for you. as you grow up, people get busy. with their work, with their life, with their gf/bf.

If bcoz of small little things, you start to have the thinkin that "he doesnt care about me as a fran. he doesnt cherish the franship. so y should i cherish it?"

if you start to have this thinkin, then ask urself, are you also one who doesnt cherish the franship? if have time, least try to understand ur fran's situation. as unhappy as i am with anyone, i nvr use any ways to so called threaten the franship at all..

stop thinkin that you are victim in the story. stop the thinkin that evrythin that u did for others is right. stop thinkin urself as the saviour. you are jus a human being. if you have enough troubles urself, why not just take a break first instead of volunteerin urself to help other people.

in the end, you will jus keep complainin that "i have enough troubles myself, please stop creating more. i don wan to see this type of troubles again."

sometimes maybe after takin a break urself, you get to see things better, clearer.
so fran, stop shoulderin all the problems to urself. why not jus share them.. u r fuckin bottling up evrything urself, then act as if nothin is happening. then all of a sudden jus erupt.. you have two of the world's best listeners around you